As men we tend to be islands on our own. Most men, (not all of us), are not very relational. Christ tells us in Luke 9:23, that we are to take up our cross everyday and follow Him. The four disciplines required to pick up our cross are: to read the Bible, talk to God (pray), hang out with others who believe in Christ (fellowship), and walk in this world with Godly confidence shining the character of Christ in us (witness). You need another person in your life to keep you accountable to God's standards. This person should be a male prayer partner. If you are married, then he should be married too. You both must have Christ in your lives for this to be effective and productive time. You should both encourage each other and pray for each other. Below is a video clip of Clint and his prayer partner Johnathan. They share how they became prayer partners.